See The "Eternal Spirit" In Your Beloved One

It is easier to love when we see an "Eternal Spirit"

It was hard for her to know how she could improve her husband, who was clearly in need of help. On one occasion, she was considering a major make-over and, being a religious woman, she decided that her upcoming project needed help from on high. She turned to God, and recieved quite a surprise. What she heard, to her surprise, was this, "Just focus on you, I'm helping him in my own way." She later reported, "I then saw my husband as a Child Spirit Of God."

Your loved one is distinct and unique because of spirit, body, and mind. But spirit, because it cannot be observed in a public and repeated fashion is beyond the ability of scientists to study. But, this doesn't mean that your spirit does not exist. It simply means that a psychologist would not be able to study it as a unique spirit. 

     However, behavioral scientists also believe that no two of us are exactly alike, even identical twins. It should be clear at this point that the answer you gave to the preceding questions now have an important bearin on a choice you can make about whether you believe that you and your partner are unique spirits. This determines the way you will respond to your loved one. It is our observation that we are kinder, more considerate, patient, forgiving, and understanding when we realize the person standing before us is a unique and eternal spirit.